With very few exceptions these drives do not have line or load side reactors or anything else to limit the "problems".
Most double digit HP drives that I have seen has a DC Link Choke. As far as harmonics are concerned it is no different then having line reactors external to the drive. We usually add external line reactors anyways to protect the drive from transients, plus it further reduces harmonics/noise. As a system integrator we can't risk having issues and being called back, so we usually add line reactors preventively. Allen Bradley strongly recommends them for their Kinetix Servo Drives.
As far as the design of the equipment limiting the problem, that is how it should be. The manufacturers should be responsible to prevent the problem from leaving their equipment, and if it does, they should be responsible for the changes to the electrical system that may be required to protect the electrical system from the equipment.
I agree, but manufactures don't care. They don't know where their equipment is being installed or what other equipment is at the plant. They advertise it in their spec sheets and it is your job to do your due diligence before ordering.
This is why for Besoeker, harmonics are make/break. He needs to provide custom equipment for a customer that will operate with-in specifications so the customer doesn't have long term issues.
As far as additive current on the neutral, I haven't seen it as an issue, and don't think I ever will. If anything it makes that lazy neutral do a little work instead of just watching the phase conductors carry the load.
Overloading the neutral isn't the only place harmonics can cause issues. Harmonics show up on audio speakers, analog io, capacitor banks, high speed counters, telephone, communications lines, efficiency losses in transformers. If you build custom equipment you have to be concerned about it.