had an apprentice ask me the same question from school.
You need to use a relay to be compliant. EGC, neutral, two travelers. To make a constant hot outlet at the load side, tie the relay coil to the load side at the 3 way and the neutral.
Now feed the outlet hot side from SPDT contacts at the relay. Common goes to the outlet, two travelers go to the DT contacts.
Wire so the NC contact is on the hot traveler, flip the other switch to reverse travelers, the relay pulls and selects the NO contact to the outlet, which is now hot.
Voila, now collect the money.
If you really want to waste all your time and money, do the same with a closed transition relay, no power blips. But be advised, only Mom will care.
gave my answer to the apprentice at the end of the day who gave it to the instructor. The instructor then showed him how to do it but not meet code.