I don't know of a complete software package that does it all. Revit and AutoCAD AEC electrical have a lot of plan-related design tools, but the price is quite high (multiple kilo-bucks) and you still can't do everything you need to with them.
I use AutoCAD LT, available for around $1k, plus Microsoft Excel. You can embed portions of a spreadsheet into AutoCAD drawings for panel schedules and fixture schedules. The AutoCAD "tables" are not well suited to automatic calculations. We have customized the tool pallettes in ACADLT with all of our plan and SLD symbols. We have templates for smoke detector coverage, strobe coverage and occ sensor coverages that help a lot with designing a layout.
I use spreadsheets for conduit sizing, voltage drops, solar panel ampacity deratings, service calcs and anything where you need to add up a column of numbers. For short circuits, TCC and arc-flash I use SKM power tools, but the learning curve on that is steep and you shoudn't use it unless you are a PE or work for one.
The best computer you have is inside your head. I think everyone in our business ought to memorize the 75 degree copper column of table 310.15(B)(16). I have worked on memorizing tables 250.66 and 250.122, but I'm not there yet.