Don't know if you have any real life experience with the whole child support "thing".
The courts do differentiate between "not paying" and "willfully not paying".
To you, how many YEARS of WILLFULLY not paying child support constitutes time for some real consequenses?
The wife's ex has a car, cell phone, bluetooth, guitars, marijuana, works steady, dines out.
His facebook pictures are great..... his cruise to Peurto Rico, grilling shrimp and steaks, etc, etc, etc.
He made them, he should support them or eventually face some real life consequences....don't ya think?
Yes, I have real life experience... but that was many years ago. Laws have changed, and I'm not fully aware of those changes. In the midst of my experience, the courts did not differentiate between not being able to pay vs. being able to pay and willingly not paying.
Another issue is the circumstance(s) under which the non-custodial parent actually became a parent. I don't want to get into any great depth on the matter, but in most cases, the man does not have any options in the decision to be a parent or not. A woman can decieve a man into contraception (I know this one from experience, but let's not get into the "it takes two to tango" debate). Not only is this hard to prove, but AFAIK, in the eyes of the law, it don't matter. A man can be a sperm donor, the woman artificially inseminated, and there are no legal ties to the man. But if it happens naturally but without consent, the man is bound by law. A woman can opt to give the child up for adoption, and the man has no say if they are not married (it wouldn't surprise me if he had no say when married), and the best he could do is attempt to adopt the child through the legal system.
But all-in-all, my main gripe is when courts impose a "penalty" which is self-defeating. And talk about compounding a problem, I have even heard nowadays a "deadbeat parent" is billed for time incarcerated!
Aside from that, this discussion is way off topic for the general forum. If you wish to further embellish on the matter, I suggest starting a new topic on the Campfire Chat forum...