I ran this by two inspectors I know, both very knowledgeable. Both agreed that I did NOT need the bond in the meter can because I had one in the breaker panel. One of them said they even knew the inspector that required 2 bond bushings and was very puzzled about why he would require both of them.
But, that is just how it is in Newaygo (New Waco. PM me if you need an explanation about that). They do things 'differently' there and there isn't much one person can do about it. If the building was 200 feet to the west, it would be in Muskegon Co. and this thread would not exist.
All seems to be well. The POCO connected and everything is working. One of these days I will measure the neutral current on the EMT just for fun.