I was wondering why the house loads take the 10KW from the PV and not just skip it entirely and take it from the Grid?
Bc the PV is closer?
No, it's because the PV is producing 10kW that has to go somewhere. If not to the house loads, then where? It cannot flow out to the grid at the same time your house is drawing current from the grid; current cannot flow two directions at once in the same wire.
Most power sources we deal with (batteries, household outlets, etc.) are
voltage sources, i.e., the voltage from them stays virtually the same and the current drawn from them depends on the resistance of the load. Ohm's Law with
V held constant.
Grid tied PV is a virtual constant
current source (constant as long as the sunlight striking the modules is constant), i.e. Ohm's Law with
I held constant instead of V. The voltage is clamped by the grid, so it is actually a constant power source. That power has to go somewhere.
Where it goes depends on the loads but
how much the PV system delivers does not.
It's like filling a bucket with a hole in it from a hose. If the flow through the hole is less than the flow from the hose, the bucket will overflow (exporting power). If the flow through the hole is more than the flow from the hose, the water level in the bucket will fall and you'll have to get water from somewhere else to keep your bucket full full (importing power). What doesn't change is the flow from the hose.
Flow = power, hose = PV system, bucket = your house, hole = your household loads, "somewhere else" = the grid.