Reviewing these code sections, it still appears to me that they deal with existing installations. I still can't find anything in the '05 code that allows me to run just three conductors in a new installation.
This is really what I'm questioning.
250.32 is the requirements or instructions on how to handle the grounding electrode at a different structure, the existing you see in (A) is only about if the building has an existing something that meets the grounding electrode requirement in 250.52, such as a water pipe, building steel, Etc... if not you have to install one of the ones listed in 250.52 so install two rods and its done, now it also tells us how it must be connected to the system, they are three different systems.
(B)(1) is if a EGC is ran and how it is to be connected, and the fact it says not to connect it or the EGC to the "grounded conductor" neutral.
(B)(2) is for when we chose not to run an EGC, we have to meet the requirements of this section which states:
Where (1) an equipment grounding conductor is not run with the supply to the building or structure, (2) there are no continuous metallic paths bonded to the grounding system in both buildings or structures involved, and (3) ground-fault protection of equipment has not been installed on the common ac service,
If we meet the above requirements then we can run just the 3 wires to the building and bond the GEC and the EGC's of this building only to the grounded circuit conductor which is the neutral.
(C) is for ungrounded systems which don't apply here.
So the only thing you see that says "existing" is in (A) which is only requiring an electrode installed if there is not one already that might be a part of the structure.
If you chose 250.32(B)(2) as to run 3 wires then you must use the main bonding jumper just like you would on any service, and the GEC must land on the neutral bar.
As per:
250.32(B)(2) the grounded circuit conductor run with the supply to the building or structure shall be connected to the building or structure disconnecting means and to the grounding electrode(s) and shall be used for grounding or bonding of equipment, structures, or frames required to be grounded or bonded. The size of the grounded conductor shall not be smaller than the larger of
(1) That required by 220.22
(2) That required by 250.122
the above in red is the neutral not the grounding conductor.