Tom, let me say it this way. L-1 = 96A.
L-2= 118A
L-3=112A
What should N=? I should know this but I don,t. 208/120 4 wire.
Listen to Smart$ and the others. To use the formulas given you have to make some assumptions. You will only know what the neutral current is by taking into account the complete vector, not just the magnitudes of the current vectors.
We can calculate a worst case, best case, etc. but you really need to know what kind of loads you have (i.e. the load impedance, which gives you the pf).
Why not just measure the neutral current (and ground if needed)?
Alternately, you could also measure the phase angle between the voltage and the current associated with that voltage. Then, you could also measure the phase angles between the voltages, but it would be close enough to assume an even displacement for most cases. With this you could calculate the real neutral current.