Yes, welcome. I did not notice this was your first post.
As for the math:
Let's look at a one-dimensional example (x-axis). Given that there are three numbers that add up to 10. One of the numbers is 2. Another of the numbers is 5. The unknown number is constrained to be 3.
The same thing happens with the delta voltages except we now have numbers that use the x & Y axis. We have a 3-sided triangle that we know must close and is located in a 2-dimensional plane. Given any two sides, the third side is constrained.
For vectors we have:
Side one with endpoints (x1, y1) & (x2, y2).
Side two with endpoints (x2, y2) & (x3, y3).
Side three must have the endpoints (x3, y3) & (x1, y1).
For phasors and voltage A@a?, B@b?, C@c? we have:
A@a? + B@b? + C@c? = 0
which gives us one equation and one unknown so we can solve for the missing voltage.
The key is that the delta is a closed triangle. There is no missing voltage, i.e. no smoking gun. If the voltages don't add to zero, you have another path somewhere that is not being accounted for.