This is a little longer version and may be over your trig teachers head.
The power in watts is equal to volts times amps, but 
we must use "phase" volts and "phase" amps to calculate power. 
Calculating these phase relationships requires a little bit of 
trigonometry.
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Assuming a balanced load, the current in any of the three phases is the 
same as that measured in each line because the line will be attached to 
one end of the phase so there cannot be any difference. We need the
phase voltage times the phase current to get the phase power.
There are two phases connected between each pair of lines in a "Y" 
circuit, and since the voltages are not in phase, they do not add together 
to make the line voltage twice the phase voltage. It turns out through 
some basic trigonometry, that the line voltage is equal to each of the two 
phase voltages times the sine of 120 degrees, and the sine of 120 degrees 
is "one-half" the square root of 3. Adding those two halves together 
gives the LINE voltage as the square root of 3 times the phase voltage. 
Or conversely the phase voltage is the line voltage DIVIDED by the square 
root of 3.
So the power in any phase, assuming, again, a balanced load is
the line voltage times the line current divided by the square root of 3.
For the three phases, then, the total power is three times the power in 
any phase. 3 X the line voltage X the line current divided by the square 
root of 3. 3 divided by the square root of 3 simplifies to just the 
square root of 3. Multiplying that, as you noted, by the power factor 
converts volt-amps to watts assuming the power factor is other than one.
In a delta connected circuit, the same problem exists 
except with the current measurement. Here, the line to line voltage 
measurement is the phase voltage, but the line current is composed of two 
currents that are out of phase by 120 degrees, and you guessed it, the 
"vector sum" of the two phase current components is the square root of 
three times the current in any phase. And, the phase current is the line 
current divided by the square root of 3, so the power equation works 
exactly the same for both the "Y" and the Delta connected circuits.