I have never cared for paralleling transformer, as if one fails the other one gets the full load and is the reason for each transformer to have its own over current protection before the tie point (see 450.7)
But as long as L1 connects to H1 and L2 connects to H2 Etc... and X1 to X1 and X2 to X2 Etc... I would believe they should be in phase?
But Gar is right, there should be 0 volts between the two in-phase lugs if the X0's are connected, I'm just not keen at trying to get this reading on two hot transformers, as this could be dangerous.
One way would be to connect a smaller wires to X1 and X1 to a meter, then energize the transformer, repeat for X2, if these so ok then you will know the last is X3 to X3.