121026-2336 EDT
newbiEE:
See if you can draw the circuit using your two resistors, one relay with a break-before-make SPDT contact, call its coil A, and one relay with a SPST NO contact, call its coil B.
Connect the contacts of relay A so the resistors are paralleled when A is de-energized.
Connect contact B from the midpoint of the series-ed resistors to the hot supply.
When both relays are de-energized the resistors are disconnected from the voltage source. So the load has infinite resistance.
When A is energized and B is de-energized the load resistance is 1.6 + 1.6 = 3.2 ohms.
With A energized, and if B is now energized, then the resistance is 1.6 ohms.
De-energizing A while B is energized will produce a resistance of 0.8 ohms.
So we can actually have four useful states of infinite, 3.2, 1.6, and 0.8 ohms.
This logic will remove the load with a loss of power to the relay coils, but it does not provide a linear mapping of the binary input number to the change of resistance.
B, A, = output
0, 0 = infinite
0, 1 = 3.2 ohms
1, 0 = 0.8 ohms
1, 1 = 1.6 ohms
Negative logic results in
B, A, = output
0, 0 = 1.6 ohms
0, 1 = 0.8 ohms
1, 0 = 3.2 ohms
1, 1 = infinite
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