For basic motor control - you only need to break one conductor.
Overload protection - if it is one designed to monitor for phase loss - you will need to use all three poles, or the phase loss protection will trip. there is more then one way to do this - but most common way would be something like running the ungrounded conductor to L1 and the grounded conductor to L3, running a jumper from T1 to L2, and connecting the motor to T2 and T3.
Also thermal overloads though will not directly detect phase loss, are designed with the heat of each element taken into consideration and you either need to use all three elements for the greatest accuracy, or find the right overload selection chart for when either single or two elements are being used.