To put it bluntly, whoever told you that is an idiot. DC can certainly kill.
That said, generally speaking voltages under 50 Vac or 120 Vdc are considered "safe" extra-low voltages (IEC 60364-4-41). NFPA 70e lists DC voltages less than 100 volts as not an electrical hazard i.e. you probably will not be electrocuted by accidentally contacting them. That however is not the whole story. Since you tied to a PV system, and this would include large DC batteries, there is the risk of arc flash. You definitely can still kill yourself from an arc flash on such a system.
Now you say that this is for a metering station, which is probably connected with small, long wires so arc flash may not be realistic at that particular point in the system.
I would point to NFPA 70e 130.2(A)(2) which clearly states that energized electrical work shall only be done on voltage levels less than 50 volts (AC or DC is not specified). For a 125 Vdc system the restricted boundary is listed as: "avoid contact." So, a qualified electrical worker can do certain work in a panel with 125 Vdc if safe work practices and PPE are utilized.
What I don't understand is why the 125 Vdc can not be safely isolated for this work. Surely, there is a disconnect leading to the metering equipment.