OK, good. Just wanted to avoid the XFMR-Up / XFMR-Down scenarios that were playing out, that's not what you have.
Yours is simpler then, you are going to run 480V out to your transformer some distance away, at which point it will feed an 800A distribution board at that remote site.
800A at 208V 3 phase is a 300kVA transformer, assuming no spare capacity for starting large motors, etc.
480V primary current is 360A, so fed with a 400A feeder breaker in your 480V distribution board.
480V primary conductor size based on 360A load, 3 phase conductors + ground (no need for Neutral), size adjusted for distance / voltage drop and conduit fill, etc. I'd probably run it as 2 x 3/0 THHN per phase, but I don't know your distance, routing, etc.