So what is the grey wire for? There is a white wire already.A disconnecting means shall be provided that also disconnects the grounded conductor.
410.130(G)(2) Disconnecting means.
(2) Multiwire Branch Circuits.
When connected to multiwire branch circuits, the disconnecting means shall simultaneously break all the supply conductors to the ballast, including the grounded conductor.
I suspect it's intentional to allow for flexibility in replacement or OEM supply applications into an existing system. Since it's not standardized, one brand might switch the control wire to black to activate the second bank of lamps while another brand do so by switching to white. When used for service replacement, this one can go into either system configuration.It seems strange that you can accomplish the number of lamps selection by connecting the gray wire to either the white or black supply conductor.