I was in BNI for a while and gave it up, the group that I was in with were all takers and no givers, I made some contacts and gave some leads to several people that got them some work, and out of 30 or so people in our goup I got "1" residential service call and "0" commercial work, I dropped out after 10 months, I have better things to do with my time than going to early morning meetings and "Power Lunches", I absolutely hate that term, and alot of the other buzz words the people used that were in the group.
As a small electrical contractor, I need to spend my time wisely making money, and they constantly had all kinds of meetings and "one on one" get togethers that took up time through the week and they always wanted to meet at sit down resturaunts, so not only was I not making money, I was spending 13 to 20 dollars for lunch....