It may be easier to think of a small portable generator, instead of the Power Company.
The PoCo has a lot of safeties built into its system and into its management procedures to insure that the generator is not harmed. They will cloud the answer that I think you might be looking for.
Think of a gasoline internal combustion engine driven 2000 watt generator. The load to be run will be a 100 watt trouble light, a 350 watt drill and a 1800 watt circle saw.
I am using the circle saw, light and drill at a job site and am on the end of a very long extension cord cause I can't stand the din of the generator.
I'm working with the trouble light on, cause the lighting's bad. When I turn on the drill, I see the light dim a little and come back up to mostly the same as it was when the drill wasn't running, just a tiny bit dimmer. I hear the din of the generator fluctuate as the added load of the drill draws more current from the generator, creating more back EMF for the motor to over come, so the motor slows, and the automatic throttle senses the slowing and increases the gas flow into the carburator until the engine RPM comes back to the set point for 60 Hz electricity.
Now I put the drill down and take up the saw. I need to rip a long piece of lumber. First I turn on the saw, not cutting, the light dims a bunch & comes back up, as the gas engine slows and catches back up. But this time, the engine takes longer to recover, in part because the long extension cord is introducing enough voltage drop at the saw that the saw is struggling to get up to no load RPM.
Finally, the saw is at no load RPM, the light is back up, but it is a little dimmer than when the drill was running because the saw has a higher no load running current and more voltage is being lost along the long extension cord.
So, I start to rip my long piece of lumber. I'm slow at first, but as I settle into the work, I just want to get 'er done. . .I push the saw harder.
The trouble light, that was dimming more when I started cutting, now is getting dimmer still.
The saw is trying to do the cut, but is drawing more current to compensate for the voltage drop along the long extension cord, which is creating more voltage drop. . .a vicious cycle. The saw crosses the breakdown point on its torque curve and the current the saw draws increases very fast now.
The light goes out.
Everything is quite.
I realize I have stalled the gas engine because the generator, just like the saw motor, tried to make the current that the saw was drawing, creating more back EMF than the gas engine had horsepower to push.