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RLyons:
Measure the voltage between neutral and the switched hot wire with a high impedance, 10 megohm, DVM with switch off. What is this reading?
Then shunt the meter with an adjustable capacitor box, or resistance box. Adjust until the lights go out. Now what is the voltage reading?
Make sure no power is applied to the lights. Both the capacitor box, or resistance box must be able to tolerate the stray voltage. In the case of the resistor box do not exceed its power rating.
Depending upon the results you can start to look for the source of energy. Possibly other kinds of measurements or experiments may be needed.
Why don't you and others make measurements to try to pinpoint a cause?
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