Never do this on anything more than maybe a 25HP starter. Ever.
When contactor contacts close, there are magnetic forces in play that are attempting to push them apart. The strength of the coil must be strong enough to overcome those forces. YOU cannot exert enough force with your finger (or a screwdriver for that matter), and if you don't believe me, take apart a starter and remove the moveable contacts, wrap your fingers around the cross arm of the armature, energize the coil and see if you can hold it back. In my personal experience, I could not hold back anything more than a Size 2 armature (GE CR300 contactors are the easiest to try this on by the way).
So when you cannot exert enough force, the force you CAN exert allows the contacts to chatter. It's a tiny amount, but any amount of chattering burns through the contact material VERY fast and risks welding them