I quit trying to be the "hero" and just explain there will be some drywall patching. I will go as far as screw the drywall plugs back in if they wish. But I won't blind drill anymore. I will minimize the holes needed if the ceiling layout lends to that. I didn't have an accident when I did it but it is time consuming and makes me nervous.
I did one and ask the owner if there was any plumbing overhead as I know there was a bath in that area. He said the bath was not in that area. I got to the last hole and drilled it. When I pulled the plug out, there was the trap for the bath toilet! At that time, there were no LED wafer/disc lights and even a short can would not fit there. Had to change the layout and they ended up with drywall patching anyway.