I used to routinely do this with the Legrand LC2201 RF switch; you could pair two of them together wirelessly (900mhz RF) without the need for a hub. They have been discontinued and replaced with Legrand’s new zigbee model, but that version doesn’t support binding multiple wired devices the same way the RFLC devices did. There are still some retailers selling them online though.
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Legrand now offers a pre-paired wired & wireless zigbee switch. You could install a wired smart switch at each location, and place the paired wireless switch of the other load next to the wired switch.
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Another option would be to replace the lamps with Philips Hue, and install the wireless switch modules behind each mechanical switch and create a virtual 3-way in the Hue app.
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I have both the Legrand and Hue devices in my house if you have any questions. There are ways to create virtual 3-ways with the wired Zigbee switches from Legrand, but it involves other software and bridges, and if this is a customers‘ house and not your own personal house, i wouldn’t recommend going through the trouble.
Legrand does also have a Wi-Fi smart switch, but i can’t remember if you are able to bind those together in the app to work as a single load. I’ve installed them, and they work just fine, but i don’t have that app on my phone now to be able to tell you the options. You could call their tech support and ask; the help desk is in PA and those guys are pretty well trained on their products.
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