I believe the OutBack FM60 and FM80 will do wind, but not as well as the Midnite Solar Classic which has the ability to define power curves for wind.
It's not the case that AC coupled inverters have to reduce their output when a generator comes on. The only requirement is that the system has to have diversion or production control so that the batteries aren't over-charged.
There are a lot of issues trying to add a generator to a grid-interactive system, not the least of which is the potential to ruin the generator of the output is grid-quality and the inverters try to export power back to it.
All in all, sounds like a fun install with many challenges.