the power across each coil is V x I/sqrt3
3 coils = 3 x V x I/sqrt3 = sqrt3 x V x I
at peak the power in one coil = 0, so adding any 2 legs gives the total
Another way of looking at it is that as long as you know the relative voltages on each conductor, you only need to know any two of the three currents.
And there is a general theorem that can be proved that for N conductors (including the grounded conductor, if potentially current carrying) you need N-1 single phase wattmeters to capture total power.
The standard POCO case of a single wattmeter for single phase 120/240
three wire service actually cheats and makes use of the assumption that the L-N
voltages are balanced. With one wattmeter you get only an approximate answer, but one that slightly favors POCO and so is good enough for them.