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Mount two lamp sockets on a board close together, but with about 1/2" between 100 W bulbs if they were installed. Three inches center to center should be good.
Attach two cords with plugs to the sockets. No connection between sockets. Install two 15 or 25 W incandescent lamps, both of the same wattage. 100s are way too bright to look at. 15s are probably optimum.
Find two receptacles near the main panel, but on opposite phases. You can verify that you are on different phases by measuring the voltage between the two hot wires. Should be around your 240. If both are on the same phase the difference is near zero, but so is the difference between neutrals.
Watch the relative brightness as different loads come on. You can use a 1500 W heater as a test load.
Assuming the air conditioner motor is 240, then both bulbs should quickly dim a little when it starts. Should not be too much difference between a bulb and itself when the air conditioner motor turns off. You can also monitor the voltage with a good DVM at the same time.
Next when nothing else is cycling on and off plug the 1500 W heater in to some circuit, but not the ones to which the bulbs are connected. If one bulb gets bright and the other dims, then there is a neutral problem. Also you could be monitoring one 120 V phase with a DVM at the same time.
A three volt change on a 120 incandescent should be noticeable to you.
See if you can learn anything from these tests.
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