Okie-dokie. The B&K preamp-processor in the pic has been replaced with a Fosgate FAP-T1+, which only has a 12v, 15ma trigger output. The only relay I could find with a coil current that low was a reed relay, which can not withstand the coil current of the 4p contactor. (DAMHIK)
Thus, I cascaded a relay with a coil current the reed relay's contacts could handle, and contacts capable of handling the contactor's coil current. I chose an ice-cube relay with 10a contacts. The two relays are on perf-board in a plastic package, in the panel with the contactor.