I can't provide a reliable recommendation but a question: are there ball valve actuators which can be separately driven to open or close, and simply default to their last state?
The (presumably cheap import) company 'US Solid' sells 5 wire electric ball valves that work in that fashion. But I think the OP wants an actuator that attaches to a regular ball valve
Motorized ball valve 9V, 12V to 24V, 5 Wire setup with indicator wires. This can be used with lights or a control system to monitor the status of the valve.
ussolid.com
I've used these valves several times, and they're shockingly well built for the price. I have 5-wire valve (power to drive open, power to drive closed) installed at my parents' house to shut off all water if it detects a freeze, leak, or if the water flows too long. They were away for a week during the winter several years ago, and an outside hose bib froze and burst. The well pump kept up, and it coated the hill behind their house in 12" of solid ice (took until June to fully melt). They were lucky the frozen bit was outside, or the entire house would have flooded.
I have a power-to-drive-open, spring-return-to-closed valve installed on my whole-house water filter to automate the backflush cycle. Works once a day for 15 seconds, without issue.
The US Solid valves are a very good value. No complaints. Just be sure to purchase the stainless valves if you're using them for potable water. They couldn't guarentee that the brass units were lead-free, according to their email.
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