It's rare for Mr. Holt to post here, but I think you will find a number of competent
folks who can answer most Code questions. The Forum is lucky enough to have some highly experienced electricians, contractors, engineers and others many of whom are in contact with members of the Code Making Panels.
Often if you read the ROPs and ROCs which show the input to the Code changes, you will understand the intent.
From those (ROPs & ROCs) it is fairly obvious that the CMP agreed the hazards from a "back-feed" on a MWBC neutral was significant enough of a problem to support the "common means of disconnect".
Your situation is not without merit. Fortunately the section is not retroactive so
existing MWBCs don't need to be addressed. Now that 210.4 (B) is in the Code, it might be prudent for your future installs to use individual neutrals thus the common disconnect won;t be needed. I have found a number of E/Cs are doing that to avoid situations such as yours.
In addition, you, or anyone else, may submit a Code change request requesting that there be an exception for certain situations,