As at least one previous poster has stated, the NEC does not define what is or is not classified as a conduit. It uses terms RMC, IMC, etc., but does not use the word "conduit" outside of these names (unless implied by the superior heading of a section). Therefore, you cannot utilize the NEC to support the assertion that EMT is not a form of conduit. EMT is a name. "Conduit" is a classification that spans many types of materials.
There is no single parameter that is exclusive to all of the named forms of conduit in the NEC. (i.e. you can't say that conduit is distinguishable because it is a threaded body, because PVC is not threaded.) Therefore, there is no distinguishing aspect that eliminates one form of circular body as being in the class of conduit or not.
Many of you get too hung up on the importance of the NEC and forget that it is nothing more than a private document created by a private company. It has no merit until the local government (legal system) adopts it. In a court of law, it has no greater importance than Merriam Webster's Dictionary.
The predicament that the engineer from the OP's posting has placed himself into is that in one area he specifically required RMC, but where not specifically required, he specified "conduit". It is this latter usage that places the term "conduit" into its generic usage. And with that, the Merriam Webster definition takes precedence, because the NEC is silent on the generic definition of what "conduit" means, or more importantly, what "conduit" excludes.
Food for thought: Is a metallic junction box an insulator simply because the NEC does not call it a conductor?