LHarrington said:
Realolman,
Now that I have went back and proof read my post, I can fully understand why you had called me a moron and a dope in the private message I had sent you. Classic case of thinking faster than I can type. I normally spend most of my time on the floor working with the crew and only jump in this forum when I have time or a question. So unlike the situations you have apparently been through in your career this was quite different, I truly want to be proactive in this guy's career. Together we learn and make mistakes. My crew is very active in the everyday decision making process. So please try to find it somewhere in your mind to view me differently than the dope you had mentioned in the private message.
I appreciate everyones suggestions and the time spent reading even the ones that stung a little. Since posting this question on the forum this person and I have had the chance to sit one on one and talk about our problems and we have selected a direction. In summary he was under the impression because of the resent employment of a couple tradesmen from the Auto Industry that he was training his replacement. We had done this off site over lunch away from the everyday grind.
Thanks again everyone
LHarrington
Thanks for singling me out in a PM and giving me credit for what I haven't done. I'm beginning to see why this guy might be a big fan of yours, and why he would trust you.
Don't send someone a PM and then incorrectly spew in public what the guy responded.
You sent me a private message. I suppose because I was the only one who did not jump on the "fire him" band wagon. I replied to that message. I asked you why you sent me a PM rather than responding in the open forum. You never answered.
I did not call you a moron or a dope. I specifically said that I did not know you, only what you post.
It takes two to tango, and being someone's boss does not make you correct. It only makes you his boss. It gives you an artificial advantage over him that is enabled and sustained by the power of the company, not by your superiority , intellectually or physically.
I said that it sucks working for a dope, that I had to work for someone who was literally functionally illiterate. Not fun, and in my opinion not fair either.
You never did say whether you owned this company or are a manager.
I gave you a football analogy: How do you suppose Joe Montana would have felt, had he had to play second string to some second rate player... and that that second rate player at least in part got to determine who played and for how much money. Think there'd have been any resentment there on Joe's part? Think it'd have been justified?
I said that in corporations, similar thinking people often gravitate to each other. Dopes like dopes and they don't like people who are more competent than themselves. They like to hire dopes, because they are less threatened by them.
So who ends up being the odd man out. Not one of the dopes.
I know this post is too long, but I'm going to quote you some passages from a book On Paradise Drive by David Brooks:
If God is omnipotent, omniescent and good, why does he allow morons to succeed? One notices this phenomenon constantly; the most empty headed, asinine individuals float helium-like from plum post to plum post, without ever demonstrating extraordinary talent, original intelligence, or even a noteworthy grasp of the matters at hand. Often they have pleasant faces and a certain animal magnetism, and their ascent seems to be accelerated by the fact that they are not burdened by the weight of an interesting personality. They've somehow acquired the reputation of One Who Is Chosen, so that when leadership jobs open up, and selection committees meet, they are called.
Their unbearable lightness is pleasing to the selectors, who either want somebody safe and manipulable or are themselves members in the community of the eminently vapid. So the zero-gravity hero ascends one more level in his merit-free rise to greatness, where he will be in a position to promote other empty eminentoes, who will promote still more hollow leaders, so that gradually day by day, they will find themselves in a golden circle of high cheekboned innocuousness- girded on left and right by a band of pleasing, unoriginal, stress free, talentless paragons radiating benign self-satisfaction upon one another without end. Amen
I said that you should make sure you are worthy of being the other man's boss.