Don, we're going to have to part with opposing assertions.
I believe you are misrepresenting UL's position.
I point-blank assert that UL has repeatedly made clear that not everything is considered part of the listing instructions, etc. I'm sorry, but I've been right there, on the scene, when senior UL personnel dissected labeling and discussed what was relevant to them and what wasn't. There's an awful lot of stickers placed and pages of instructions published that have no bearing whatever, at least as far as UL is concerned. To claim that UL claims you must follow these irrellevancies is giving UL a jurisdiction even they don't claim.
UL is quite right: UL is NEVER the AHJ, and it's the responsibility of the AHJ.
Likewise, we're going to have to agree to differ regarding classified breakers. UL says they're OK, I say they're OK. Placed together with the UCC, it seems pretty clear that a court would have no choice but to see things my way, as well.
The UL 'listing' is meant for complete assemblies only. Sure, there are plenty of exceptions - indeed, I am told that the humble replacement lamp ballast was what got things rolling at UL, to where they finally instituted the 'recognized component' program.
Do you own a car?
OK, what motor oil goes in it? Compare that to what the owners manual might say. If you're willing to put anything but Delco oil in your GM product , and have it done by anyone but the dealer, .... you're not following 'instructions.'
That's why UL has repeatedly stated that ONLY those 'instructions' that are PART OF the listing are relevant. Of course, the man in the field has no way of telling just where the line must be drawn.
Now ... this afternoon I get to hook up a very nice foreign machine whose instructions tell me to NOT tie it into the building ground, but to drive a separate ground rod. Gee, which part of the NEC do I violate? Section 110 or 250?
One need not follow illegal orders, and it seems clear to me that any sort of 'use only my stuff' instructions qualify as illegal orders. They are illegal because they contradict both reason and existing law (UCC). The OP should feel perfectly free to use Cantex pipe with his Carlon fittings ... heck, toss in some Exxon stuff, too, while you're at it ....