A load of 10kw on A and B phases has 10kw load on each phase not 5 kw on each. That is why we get 48 amps on A and B phases. Now we add a load to B and C phase and we still have 48 on Phase A but how do we only have 83 amps on B phase. Why not 96. How do we get 83 amps.
The current on B phase is the sum of the currents from the load across A-B and the load across B-C. These currents are not in phase with each other but instead are 60° apart, because the 208V across the A-B and B-C loads are shifted 60° from each other.
If they were in-phase (i.e., at 0° between them) then their currents would add directly and you'd get the 96 amps you mentioned.
Because they are shifted 60 degrees, the portion of each load current that's in-phase with the other (and also in-phase with the B-N voltage) is cos(60°/2) x 48A ≈ 0.866 x 48A ≈ 41.6A. And so when they add together the resultant B phase current is 2 x 41.6A ≈ 83A.
Where did the "missing" current go? It's not really missing. There is a portion (i.e., "component") of each of the A-B and B-C load currents that is not in phase with each other, or with the B-N voltage, but instead is 90° apart from it (one is +90° and the other one -90°). Notice that this makes these two current components 180° from each other, and so this current flows through the A-B load into the B-C load and vice-versa without any contribution to the current on phase B. This is the same reason that no current will appear on the neutral of a split-phase 120V/240V system when the L-N currents on the two phases are balanced, because of their 180 degree relationship.
How much current flows between the A-B and B-C loads and does not go through phase B? That is somewhat academic, but it would be sin(60°/2) x 48A = 0.5 x 48A = 24A.
And so the bottom line is that the A-B and B-C load currents each contribute 41.6A to the B-phase current, which will then be 41.6A + 41.6A ≈ 83A.
24A of these load currents will flow from one load to the other and therefore does not appear on the B-phase. As mentioned, 41.6A of the 48A will be in-phase with the B-N voltage and 24A will be 90° from it. This is consistent with Mr. Pythagorus"s Theorem: √ ( 41.6
2 + 24
2) ≈ 48.
It might be helpful to think of this like two people pushing on a pole. They can't occupy the same point in space, and so the force they can apply will not be completely is the same direction. For example, say they are each pushing at a 30° angle to the pole. Then cos(30°) ≈ 0.866 or 86.6% of their force gets applied along the direction of the pole. The rest of the force each person applies is effectively one person pushing against the other.