211020-1332 EDT
You responders do not know how to troubleshoot and ask the correct questions.
There are at least two broad groups of reed switches. One type is small with a glass tube OD of about 1/8" diameter and 3/4" long. Relatively low current rating, but good as a logic input element, and environmentally sealed. Also contact materials are good for very low voltage switching, microvolts, but that characteristic is not needed here. The other general type of reed switch is still glass sealed, but is larger, and has some reasonable power switching capability.
Either of these reed types have a relative large ratio magnetic hysteresis, but alone with just a simple concentrated magnetic field source that may not translate to a large mechanical hysteresis from the input actuator.
If you build an external mechanical actuator to change the mechanical hysteresis for the input magnet to the reed switch, then you could get level hysteresis from a single reed switch.
See a good article on reed switches at ---
A reed switch consists of two ferromagnetic nickel-iron wires and specially shaped contact blades (reeds) positioned in a hermetically sealed glass capsule with a gap between them and in a protective atmosphere. The glass capsule is filled with inert gas to prevent activation of the contacts...
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You can get very good life from a reed switch if you stay within its ratings. So it is important to find out the rating of the reed switch system and stay within those ratings. If the reed switch directly controls an electromechanical relay, then some form of snubber might be desired across the relay coil.
Suppose the reed switch mechanism has very little inherent level hysteresis, then you need something in the external circuit to add some timing hysteresis. Various responders have made suggestions along these lines.
A small reed switch controlling an OAC5 solid state relay to control the larger power relay might work quite well.
Suppose the pump system has some sort of high level sensor, then the system might actually be a two level sensor system system.
SK092170 needs to more accurately define what his system is and how it operates.
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