Had the power company out and they did a load test and applied a "huge load", A phase dropped to 115 and b to 118 with 239 between them as I'm standing there laughing because they thought that was bad and quickly turned the load off when I was running at 115 all morning and much lower the past few nights.
They ended up swapping the transformer which helped the voltage a bit but there gonna come back and add an additional transformer to the street. Since they replaced the transformer I haven't had any issues with my kitchen lights like I was but it's too soon to tell as it would go days without issue before but I had another lamp which is made from an old electric meter that would always flicker but at the same time the meter made a slight rattle so I assume the old meter was messing with the LED, no more flickering on that and the meter doesn't make the noise like before.