Another way to look at is this... You have to weigh what relationships you are willing to invest yourself and your company with. Contrary to our own wishes, we don't have an unlimited supply of time and energy (T&E) to invest with everyone, and wait to see which relationships pay dividends. We have to be selective.
As guys like this begin taking up your T&E it is likely you may be less available for others. The next thing you know these aggressive control type personalities are gaining a larger foothold on you, your profits, your choices, your stress levels, etc. Also, you contribute to their success. This becomes the new model. The only way for other GC?s to successfully compete against them is to adopt their tactics too, only more aggressively. Now this becomes the norm across the entire industry.
I used to have a GC that only got one electrical price from me. When he got the job, I got the job. I picked him up when the EC before me got too busy and flipped a coin. The GC felt betrayed and his loyalty came to me. Then I got frustrated with the GC, felt that the risk exposure was getting high because of how he handles his customers etc, . My prices began reflecting that and I lost the account when he checked my number after losing a bid. That was it for me, he?s either back to his old gut or closed his doors.
It?s funny, this caught my attention because I just got a call today from a new GC that was awarded public work and still wants more EC prices. My concern is that this guy will use my number to get ?his guy? lower. I used to get that from another guy that I am now turning down ITB?s from. He used to call me and tell me the job was mine if I could match so ?n so?s price. Once I said I wouldn?t and the other guy got it. Once I said I wouldn?t and I got it anyway. Once I said I would and effectively got last look. Same thing here though, my price was never my best price at bid, I always had to add a little. I am tired of playing with him and now I only look at his work if I?m the only one looking. He likes my service and expertise, so I get the PIA jobs, and the nice bid work goes to the low bidder.
I still haven?t decided what I?m going to do about the public ITB I got today, I?m leaning toward passing on it, but wouldn?t we all rather submit a price to the GC that was awarded the job instead of multiple GC?s wondering if you got a number to the guy that wins it?