OK. I see it now. Tricky subject. You have power to the garage and to the house under separate services. You have lights in the garage controlled with 3-way switches, one of which is inside the house. You are bringing power into the house at two separate locations, but you are not using power in the house in the second one, since the load being controlled is a garage light. Is that a violation of the "one source only rule"? I think it is. The house has its own service, so nothing in 225 will apply. It does not meet any of the sub-articles of 230.2. So you can't do it at all, and the question of whether a 3-way switch could count as a disconnecting means no longer matters.