I had a fellow contractor invite me to a BNI breakfast, does anyone have any opinion on whether this would be quality networking for my business or just a pyramid / Amway scheme
firstly, amway isn't a "pyramid" scheme.
it's a brutally straightforward way to make a lot of money.
it's also insanely hard work. most people aren't suited for it.
BNI, imho, and i've been in two chapters, doesn't work all
that well for sparkies.
ironically, however, the first chapter i joined, which came apart
one day when the mortgage broker and the CPA got into
a fist fight in the meeting room, during the meeting, produced half
a dozen people i've been doing business with for the last 8 years,
including my financial planner, chiropractor, tax accountant, and a
CNC machine shop operator.
i missed that memorable meeting, but i heard the mortgage broker
drew blood. my financial planner broke them up.
the second group i joined after the fight implosion, which was supposed
to be this awesome group that walked on water, it produced ONE
job that paid $75. that was in six months, before i quit in disgust.
the single best referral i ever got from anywhere came from a fellow
three days out of a 5150 lockdown, who thought it would be a good
idea for me to meet his uncle.
it was. the resulting work from that single contact will probably top
seven figures before it's done.
so the best business development advice i ever got was from a guy
with bumps all over his head from police nightsticks, and being slammed
on the cop car hood, who got a psyche evaluation to determine if he
was a threat to himself or others, right before he helped me with
business advice.