I think you raise a great point, Larry.
However, :When the CMP chose "electrically" as the adverb in this phrase, I think they went off into a vague generalized area that reaches much wider than the common sense idea of "solidly paralleled."
You raise a great point about multiple parallel single pole switches controlling a single load.
I, personally, like the facility offered by the switching method that I illustrate in my sketch, and, given the common construction of the site assembly, see no safety issue.
The (what I call Carter) 3 way method shown in posts #4, #7 & #10 has states that cause the screw shell of the lamp holder to be energized, including one state when the lamp is not lit ("off") that are reasonably deemed hazardous. I've no problem with coaxing the rewiring of this method, as Daleuger says, to "just do it right."
But, at this point, it seems to me, 310.4 can be used to red tag any parallel single pole direct switching of a single load that is done with conductors smaller than 1/0.