If the 3 ways were fed off of the Load side of the 2p Disconnect in the "Other Buiding" it still would'nt make any difference unless you were sure the 2p switch was off when you were working on the lighting circuit. you would have to make sure that the 2p Switch was clearly marked as the Main Disconnect. I dont like this type of install because nobody's going to think that the 2p switch is the main disconnect anyway.