NO, NO, NO!!!!
What you are probably seeing is a MINIMUM CIRCUIT AMPACITY of 90 amps and a MAXIMUM FUSE SIZE of 125 amps. That is not a range, they are specific values to be used for specific portions of the installation. One is used to select the conductor, the other is used to select the fuse/circuit breaker. If that is so, your #3 conductors are OK, IF the conductors AND TERMINATIONS are all rated for at least 75 degrees C. If any of your terminations are not labeled, you must assume they are only suitable for 60 degrees. At 60 degrees #3 is only rated for 85 amps and would not meet the 90-amp minimum circuit ampacity. Either grounding method should be fine.[/QUO
after checking again last night it is labeled exactly as you say, and i 'll be using a #2 thhn . i was wrong. thanks for the help .