Interesting discussion. In all my years in this business I have seen and investigated many incidents where customer equipment was damaged due to anomalies from the Poco (rectifier blown power fuses, 480v GF Relay trip light alarms, circuit board damage to VFD controllers, ATS voltage sensing circuits, memory loss and damage in PLCs, fire alarm panel motherboard damage, elevator controller damage, etc, etc.) Yeah, sure we can all speculate as to the exact cause of the damage but I don't think there is anyone on this forum that can deny that in the majority of cases the root cause can always be related to voltage transients and solid state devices. As to what causes these transients is pure speculation but unless there is a sophisticated power line disturbance analyzer monitoring the power lines to customers then the magnitude of these damaging voltages can not be quantified. But damage to equipment can be documented.
I was called out last week after a customer's facility was running on generators due to Poco line voltage problems. Aside from what caused the generators to run and not shut down, one piece of equipment was a PLC that lost it's program as part of a vacuum pump alternating panel. I opened a post in the Controls and Logic forum here titled Eaton C-H D100 PLC and in post #11 I describe briefly what I found.
There is no doubt in my mind that the damage that is described in the OP is due to anomalies caused by the Poco. I would take the advice offered by Larry in post #3.