First off, the Utility company is requiring the neutral. They said they need it for metering purposes. It is NOT an NEC requirement, however it will mean that i now have to convert my 3 wire inverters to 4 wire.
It sounds like the utility may not have much experience with solar. To my knowledge there are no issues with connecting 3 wire inverters to 4 wire services. (Only way I've personally seen large systems done, actually). I suggest reading this article:
http://solarprofessional.com/article/?file=SP5_1_pg26_Hamon
Also, try posting this same question in the forum at solarprofessional.com. The author of the article frequently replies to questions there.
It's up to you, obviously, but if it were me I would try to educate the utility about the (lack of) neutral rather than let them require potentially unnecessary costs for you and your clients on future jobs.
As for the meter, I suppose it may be their prerogative to ask for a neutral at the meter/CT can, but there is no reason you need to bring the neutral anywhere else beyond the service disconnecting means that it not needed for line to neutral loads.
As far as your question is concerned, the new 480 vac panel board is basically an AC combiner box. My DC circuits will come off the roof to 2 inverters and the output of those (AC feeds) will back feed (2) 125 amp breakers and out of the 250 amp main breaker will run up to the CT Can and disconnect. Does that make sense? I wish I could draw it out for you. My original question is do I take that 250 amp feed to the CT Can first or the 400 amp Disconnect?
I still a bit confused about the location of the 400A fused disco and the purpose of the meter.
If it is a service net-meter, I would think it should go out by the SES, especially if there are any other loads on the service besides the solar.
If it is a solar production meter, then it can be between the 250A breaker and the 400amp disco as you've suggested, preferably closer to the 250A breaker. (There can't be any non-solar loads in the AC panel you've mentioned.) However it could also be back towards the SES if that allows you to avoid running the neutral to the solar system location.
To answer your other question, yes I now have multiple disconnecting means. One at the SES (400 amp breaker), one at the disconnect outside, and one at the AC Panel Board in the basement of the garage. Which is all good due to the fact that they are all remote from each other.
You have multiple disconnecting means, but only one service disconnecting means (400A breaker) that you've mentioned. Are there any loads connected to this service that are not the solar?
With regard to the neutral, 250.24(C) requires it to be brought to the SES, but nothing requires it to be brought any further if it is not used.
One other thing: The grounding wire run with those 600 mcm probably needs to be bigger than a #2. Presumably it is a either a GEC or a GES bonding jumper and code requires that to be sized according to 250.66.