Regarding Connecting the primary neutral of an mgn to the secondary neutral, there are some theoretical negatives to that practice.
Essentially is it a selfish matter by the utility to utilize the customer's premise grounding for any incidences that occur on the utility's system, and thus potentially imposing medium voltages into the customer's premises. That connection does not have to be made, it's just a matter of the transformer construction, i.e. the tank being the neutral connection for both systems. There is a device called a Ronk blocker which could help mitigate those effects yet still allow the advantages the POCO receives from connecting the primary and secondary neutrals.