Well,
If you go to three body shops, they are going to pull out a flat rate book and give virtually identical estimates. They know what the insurance companies are willing to pay.... the amount they say they will charge. Sadly, we as an industry have let the consumer trample us. Now that the economy is bad, it gets worse. Since gas is down, free estimates are not as costly, but they still cost. Since I am also a home builder, I get publications related to residential construction. Most everyone says to charge for everything you do. Also, to copyright what ever paper/plans you give the HO. At least with that, you have some protection. I also know the owner of a very high end cabinet shop. The guy that refuses to provide layouts unlss he has the job. His philosophy is that they will find someone cheaper, and they will build to what he drew out. He said he misses out sometimes, but he sure does have a nice shop, good employees, and a load of business.
As said before, we must educate the consumer. There is far more than slinging romex to our job. Knowledge costs money. Skill costs money.
I was laughing th other day. A good friend that is a doctor was discussing how lawyers have it made. They charge a high fee, but you seldom use them so $125 to $250+ an hour is not a big deal. After all, you use them once every so many years. He pointed out that people complain about doctor's charges. Why? Because people (especially with kids) see the doctor alot and can't seem to find the value in his services. Yet, his level of education far exceeds what lawyers have...(well most anyway).
We are not alone in people thinking we should be cheap or free. Unfortunately, we just have alot in our trade that work for next to nothing. Also, the barriers to entry in our profession are just a trip to Home Depot away.
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