Re: grounding of generators in parallel
OK, you will find lots of help here. I will try to point you in the right direction, but I feel you should do the ground work.
For starters you need to know what a SDS (seperately derived system) is. Look in NEC article 100 for the difinitions. Some other difinitions you will need to know are Ground Electrode (GE), Ground Electrode System (GES) Ground Elctrode Conductor (GEC), Bonding Jumpers, Main Bonding Jumper (MBJ), Equipment Grounding Conductor, Grounded Conductor (aka neutral), Ungrounded Conductor (aka hot or phase).
Then find NEC article 250 and read it. You will find info on SDS in 250.30.
That should get you started, then post back here for clarifications and more questions. Good luck and welcome to the Forum