After speaking with an engineer with the manufacture he was able to shed some light on the subject and explain a few things. He directed me to these attached specs.
The .8A @ 250VAC inductive rating is based on 200,000 minimum life operations as listed/tested. Attached is an inductive (and resistive) cure of amperage relation to the life operations.
The curve shows the .8A @ 250VAC to equal (200 X 10 to the third power) or 200 X 1,000 = 200,000.
At my 1.7A inductive current it shows 100 X 1,000 = 100,000. So basically at 1.7A ill limit the listed life operations to half which explains my little to no arc. My expected 6 operations max a day will make the relay last a very long time for me.
There is also a max switching current that is also variable depending on the voltage when dealing with inductive load as 120VAC it is increased to 3A VS the 2A at 250VAC