A 5 ton unit is considered to be a large AC unit. The normal electric utility transformer installation and secondary distribution normally is not sized for larger than 2 to 3 ton units. Rather than spending lots of time trouble shooting the entire system looking for trouble that is not there, call the serving electric utility and complain about the voltage flicker and dip. They will send a trouble man out to do a cursory check and you need to insist on a recording voltmeter for a longer period of time.
The serving electric utility needs to replace the transformer, the secondary, the service drop, or a combination thereof. :smile: