The problem is the way we want to say every thing using the fewest number of words even though single and slang words may have multiple meanings.
A strict engineering definition should not be the sole criteria for an NEC description, simply because very few strict engineering definitions actually exist. For example: A phase difference means different things to a power engineer than they do to an audio engineer. A ground reference means something different to a utility engineer than it does to a communications engineer. There are many more examples where the electrical construction trade has different terms for similar items than do industrial electricians, who use similar terms for different items than do electrical engineers.
I have no problem with saying there are neutral conductors and neutral points, even though they not always the same. Or, that is possible to have one phase conductor but in reality it take two conductors to have one phase voltage.