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Whether two parallel contacts perform logical OR or AND depends upon whether you are working with positive or negative logic.
Most people normally work and think in a positive logic mode. So for them parallel contacts are an OR function.
Consider cascading three NAND gates. Assume the first is performing the AND function, the next is an OR function, and the third is back to an AND function.
Can you parallel two two wire prox switches? This will depend upon on the characteristics of the prox switches, the power source, and the load.
A two wire prox switch derives power for its operation from the current thru the prox. This means there must current thru the prox whatever the output state of the prox is. Probably this means there must be reasonable voltage drop across the prox when in its closed state.
Do some measurements on a single prox to see how it works works, then with two parallel proxs.
Report results.