Yeah well the governors on them are crude and manufacturing tolerances are wide, so there can be either tightness or lost motion in them. But they are simple, cheap, and reliable. I'd say they also compromise rotating mass for overall weight of the product.

So.... 3600rpm generators are craptastic all the way around other than reducing price. They generally are doing good to maintain even +/- 5hz and that is because an engine MUST be operated in the sweet spot of torque, not HP. At 3600rpm, an engine is around peak HP, but well after peak TQ. This allow OEMs to claim high power ratings and use smaller engines. Due to being operated at this engine speed, any real load against it will decrease rpm dramatically.
Proper designed generators will either run direct at 1800RPM, with a 4 pole generator. The engine can hold speed very well, is in the meat of the TQ band, but due to running at the lower speed, engine size is nearly double. there are also speed ratio generators such as the Onan RV units. Yes, a good 1800rpm generator will also have a hefty flywheel to handle inertial hits and be rated for such.
Inverters I think most are using a BLDC with high pole counts, 6 or more. This is primarily to maintain good performance at the reduced, near idle, RPM. Because the output stage is digital, they have outstanding frequency stability, even better than the grid. Voltage is the only thing that takes a hit with high loads.
The main thing to figure out with customers IMO, is what they both expect and expect to pay. Most of the time their expectations don't match their wallet. Good luck trying to do an AGS on a screamer, and to a fail safe ATS design. This is where true standbys come in. Otherwise I generally try to find out outage frequency/duration/general urgency. IE, outage of about 1hr, 1x per yr. IF you happen to be home, that generator might run 15min before power is restored....lol Gotta drag it out, flip some switches, etc, etc. Then if you didn't maintain the generator, it won't start anyway.